I am so very tired of hearing the phrase “suffering with Alzheimer Disease (or dementia).  This should not be, in any way, considered “the norm” for individuals experiencing various types of dementia.  This is not to say that people with dementia are not capable of experiencing anguish and pain, for we all are.  To promote the concept of “suffering with dementia” as a norm, is to undervalue the significant benefits of good treatment and management. An integrative approach to care is the only measure which has the ability to enhance health and ones sense of well-being.  Those quoting the suffering, may want to ask themselves “What is making them suffer?”  Could it be that they are not being seen as a unique and valuable person but rather a person “suffering with dementia”?                                                                      Ann